YOU FEEL LIKE GIVING UP?
By Kristie, CPR Minister
What is happening to you? Do you feel like just when
you thought you were being blessed with breakthrough,
you were cursed instead? Has an adulteress or adulterer
risen their ugly head out of the blue in your situation
the past couple of weeks, just when you thought things
were looking up in your marriage? Did you get a bit
of bad news, a paper served, a rejection letter from
your spouse, or maybe just a long time of nothing
at all. Do you feel like it is over, you are done,
that you cannot go on like this anymore? Do you feel
like something is very wrong, that you have been faithful
to God, you have done it all, the fasting, the speaking
Gods word, the praying, but despite all that your
spouse seems to go on with their wickedness unhindered
by God, maybe even prospering, meanwhile your life
is falling apart in every area? Do you find yourself
very confused by this, to the point that you wonder
if you are just messed up? Maybe you are not a child
of God afterall, maybe for some unknown reason to
you, you are shut off from God, maybe you are not
even saved, maybe you are just some crazy person?
Have you even had thoughts of suicide, just wanting
to die and not spend another day in this hell? Have
you finally reached a true understanding of Job like
you have never had before, where at one time no'matter
what was going on, you still felt blessed in that
your trial of suffering has brought you into a deeper
relationship with God, but now even that is not blessing
you, like Job you just want to hide, want God to remove
His hand from you, take His eyes off you, you just
want to be nothing and un-noticed by either party
in the spiritual. Do you feel like you are on the
verge of failing in your spirit and soul? Have you
pondered that it all seems impossible, not only your
spouse and marriage, but even emotional healing of
all the damage that you have suffered in this battle?
There is no understanding, no reality, no answers,
no direction? Do you feel that maybe you are just
wrong, that this is not Gods will for you afterall,
you made a mistake, and He does not want to bring
your spouse back? Maybe some of you are even feeling
better then you ever have because you have just shut
down completely, you do not even care anymore. Maybe
some of you have a outside person pursuing you which
is helping the pain, and this person looks like everything
you have ever wanted, and you are thinking that maybe
this is where your blessing is instead of your spouse?
Are you beginning to convince yourself that maybe
your blessing does not have to come in the form of
your spouse coming home, and you are alright with
that, just as long as you are blessed in some way,
another person maybe. Is the silence of God unbearable
and it feels like the dark night of your soul? Are
you finding that about all you can utter in prayer
is Gods will be done and begging for deliverance from
this nightmare, one way or the other, you will take
anything at this point just to be delivered from this
Does any of this describe you? Then I have a word
for you. I know exactly how you feel, and many of
you are feeling it. Many of you have even spoken out
from your mouths in the past couple of weeks, some
of the things I have stated above. I have not personally
heard you do so, but I know. The silence of God, so
agonizing, so unsure, even frightening because you
have no idea anymore what to believe.
I sat quietly and pondered the silence of God a couple
of days ago, and in that quiet God spoke to me clearly
and He said, "Yes, I am silent, I do not have
to say anything, I have already said it and now you
just have to believe it".
You have been begging for a neon sign from God, scripture
is not feeding your faith anymore because it seems
to be falling to the ground when you speak it. You
want a burning bush, you are begging God for a burning
bush. I know....I know exactly where you are.
Well, I am not bringing you a burning bush, or maybe
I am, only your spirit will know. I am bringing you
the facts though. God has spoken out of the silence,
and He has said all He is going to say because He
has already said it all, and now it is up to you to
believe it or not. You know the scripture about when
satan tempted Jesus up on the mountain when He went
to fast and pray for 40 days. Everytime satan spoke
to Jesus, Jesus said...."It is written....".
Jesus did this because everything that satan came
at Him with, it was already covered by God, a response
already stated by God, and that was just that, end
of story. Satan went away defeated because nothing
he does or says can overcome the word of God, nothing.
Here is a word from God for you....
It is written, Mar 10:9 What therefore God hath joined
together, let not man put asunder.
It is written, Mat 19:5 And said, For this cause
shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave
to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Mat
19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh.
What therefore God hath joined together, let not man
It is written, Mar 10:7 'And for this reason a man
will leave his father and mother and unite with his
wife, Mar 10:8 and the two will become one.' So they
are no longer two, but one. Mar 10:9 No human being
must separate, then, what God has joined together."
It is written, Mal 2:14 You ask why he no longer
accepts them. It is because he knows you have broken
your promise to the wife you married when you were
young. She was your partner, and you have broken your
promise to her, although you promised before God that
you would be faithful to her. Mal 2:16 "I hate
divorce," says the LORD God of Israel. "I
hate it when one of you does such a cruel thing to
his wife. Make sure that you do not break your promise
to be faithful to your wife."
It is written, Ecc 9:9 Live joyfully with the wife
whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity,
which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days
of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life,
and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.
It is written, Eph 5:21 Submitting yourselves one
to another in the fear of God. Eph 5:22 Wives, submit
yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
Eph 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife,
even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is
the saviour of the body.
Eph 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ,
so let the wives be to their own husbands in every
thing. Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as
Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for
it; Eph 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their
own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
Eph 5:29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh;
but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord
Eph 5:30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh,
and of his bones.
Eph 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father
and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and
they two shall be one flesh. Eph 5:33 Nevertheless
let every one of you in particular so love his wife
even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence
IS YOUR SPOUSE IN ADULTERY AND YOU FEEL LIKE THEY
ARE JUST GETTING AWAY WITH IT? THAT THIS UNGODLY RELATIONSHIP
IS GOING TO REMAIN PLEASANT FOR HIM/HER....NOT SO:
It is written, Exo 20:14 Thou shalt not commit adultery.
It is written, Deu 5:18 Neither shalt thou commit
It is written, Heb 13:4 Marriage is honourable in
all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers
God will judge.
It is written, Pro 2:16 To deliver thee from the
strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth
with her words; Pro 2:17 Which forsaketh the guide
of her youth, and forgetteth the covenant of her God.
Pro 2:18 For her house inclineth unto death, and her
paths unto the dead. Pro 2:19 None that go unto her
return again, neither take they hold of the paths
It is written, Pro 5:3 For the lips of a strange
woman drop honey, And her mouth is smoother than oil:
Pro 5:4 But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword. Pro 5:5 Her feet go down
to death; Her steps take hold on Sheol; Pro 5:6 So
that she findeth not the level path of life: Her ways
are unstable, and she knoweth it not.
Pro 5:7 Now therefore, my sons, hearken unto me, And
depart not from the words of my mouth. Pro 5:8 Remove
thy way far from her, And come not nigh the door of
her house; Pro 5:9 Lest thou give thine honor unto
others, And thy years unto the cruel; Pro 5:10 Lest
strangers be filled with thy strength, And thy labors
be in the house of an alien,
Pro 5:11 And thou mourn at thy latter end, When thy
flesh and thy body are consumed,
It is written, Pro 5:20 And why wilt thou, my son,
be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the
bosom of a stranger? Pro 5:21 For the ways of man
are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth
all his goings. Pro 5:22 His own iniquities shall
take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with
the cords of his sins. Pro 5:23 He shall die without
instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he
shall go astray.
It is written, Pro 6:26 For on account of a harlot
a man is brought to a piece of bread; And the adulteress
hunteth for the precious life.
Pro 6:27 Can a man take fire in his bosom, And his
clothes not be burned? Pro 6:28 Or can one walk upon
hot coals, And his feet not be scorched? Pro 6:29
So he that goeth in to his neighbor's wife; Whosoever
toucheth her shall not be unpunished.
It is written, Pro 6:32 He that committeth adultery
with a woman is void of understanding: He doeth it
who would destroy his own soul.
Pro 6:33 Wounds and dishonor shall he get; And his
reproach shall not be wiped away.
It is written, Pro 7:10 And, behold, there met him
a woman With the attire of a harlot, and wily of heart.
Pro 7:11 She is clamorous and wilful; Her feet abide
not in her house: Pro 7:22 He goeth after her straightway,
As an ox goeth to the slaughter, Or as one in fetters
to the correction of the fool; Pro 7:23 Till an arrow
strike through his liver; As a bird hasteth to the
snare, And knoweth not that it is for his life. Pro
7:26 For she hath cast down many wounded: Yea, all
her slain are a mighty host.
Pro 7:27 Her house is the way to Sheol (Hell), Going
down to the chambers of death.
It is written, Pro 9:13 The foolish woman is full
of noise; she has no sense at all. Pro 9:14 Seated
at the door of her house, in the high places of the
town, Pro 9:15 Crying out to those who go by, going
straight on their way, she says: Pro 9:16 Whoever
is simple, let him come in here: and to him who is
without sense, she says: Pro 9:17 Drink taken without
right is sweet, and food in secret is pleasing. Pro
9:18 But he does not see that the dead are there,
that her guests are in the deep places of the underworld.
It is written, Lev 20:10 And the man that committeth
adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth
adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer
and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.
It is written, Pro 22:14 The mouth of strange women
is a deep hole: he with whom the Lord is angry will
go down into it.
It is written, Pro 23:27 For a loose woman is a deep
hollow, and a strange woman is a narrow water-hole.
It is written, Eph 5:5 For this ye know, that no
whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man,
who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom
of Christ and of God.
DO YOU THINK THE ADULTERESS OR ADULTERER INVADING
YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT GOING TO BE PUNISHED, THAT THEY
ARE GETTING AWAY WITH STEALING YOUR SPOUSE..THINK
It is written, Jam 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses,
know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity
with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of
the world is the enemy of God.
It is written, Hos 2:5 For their mother hath played
the harlot: she that conceived them hath done shamefully:
for she said, I will go after my lovers, that give
me my bread and my water, my wool and my flax, mine
oil and my drink. Hos 2:6 Therefore, behold, I will
hedge up thy way with thorns, and make a wall, that
she shall not find her paths.
It is written, Hos 2:9 So I will take away again
my grain in its time and my wine, and I will take
away my wool and my linen with which her body might
have been covered. Hos 2:10 And now I will make her
shame clear before the eyes of her lovers, and no
one will take her out of my hand. Hos 2:11 And I will
put an end to all her joy, her feasts, her new moons,
and her Sabbaths, and all her regular meetings. Hos
2:12 And I will make waste her vines and her fig-trees,
of which she has said, These are the payments which
my lovers have made to me; and I will make them a
waste of trees, and the beasts of the field will take
them for food. Hos 2:13 And I will give her punishment
for the days of the Baals, to whom she has been burning
perfumes, when she made herself fair with her nose-rings
and her jewels, and went after her lovers, giving
no thought to me, says the Lord.
It is written, Eze 16:36 This is what the Sovereign
LORD says: "You stripped off your clothes, and
like a prostitute, you gave yourself to your lovers
and to all your disgusting idols, and you killed your
children as sacrifices to idols. Eze 16:37 Because
of this I will bring all your former lovers together---the
ones you liked and the ones you hated. I will bring
them around you in a circle, and then I will strip
off your clothes and let them see you naked. Eze 16:38
I will condemn you for adultery and murder, and in
my anger and fury I will punish you with death.
Eze 16:39 I will put you in their power, and they
will tear down the places where you engage in prostitution
and worship idols. They will take away your clothes
and jewels and leave you completely naked.
Eze 16:40 "They will stir up a crowd to stone
you, and they will cut you to pieces with their swords.
Eze 16:41 They will burn your houses down and let
crowds of women see your punishment. I will make you
stop being a prostitute and make you stop giving gifts
to your lovers.
It is written, Num 5:27 If she has committed adultery,
the water will cause bitter pain; her stomach will
swell up and her genital organs will shrink. Her name
will become a curse among her people.
It is written, Jer 30:14 All your lovers have forgotten
you; they no longer care about you. I have attacked
you like an enemy; your punishment has been harsh
because your sins are many and your wickedness is
GOD WILL DEAL WITH YOUR SPOUSE AND THE FOREIGNER
IN YOUR MARRIAGE...THE ADULTERER AND THE LIAR WILL
BE DEALT WITH...
It is written, Pro 16:18 Pride goeth before destruction,
and an haughty spirit before a fall.
It is written, Pro 17:11 An evil man seeketh only
rebellion: therefore a cruel messenger shall be sent
It is written, Pro 17:13 Whoso rewardeth evil for
good, evil shall not depart from his house.
It is written, Pro 17:15 He that justifieth the wicked,
and he that condemneth the just, even they both are
abomination to the LORD.
It is written, Pro 19:5 A false witness shall not
be unpunished, and he that speaketh lies shall not
It is written, Pro 19:9 A false witness shall not
be unpunished, and he that speaketh lies shall perish.
It is written, Pro 19:16 He that keepeth the commandment
keepeth his own soul; but he that despiseth his ways
It is written, Pro 19:29 Judgments are prepared for
scorners, and stripes for the back of fools.
It is written, Pro 20:17 Bread of deceit is sweet
to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled
It is written, Pro 21:12 The righteous man wisely
considereth the house of the wicked: but God overthroweth
the wicked for their wickedness.
It is written, Pro 22:3 A prudent man foreseeth the
evil, and hideth himself: but the simple pass on,
and are punished.
It is written, Pro 22:5 Thorns and snares are in
the way of the perverse: He that keepeth his soul
shall be far from them.
It is written, Pro 22:8 He that soweth iniquity shall
reap calamity; And the rod of his wrath shall fail.
It is written, Pro 24:16 For an upright man, after
falling seven times, will get up again: but trouble
is the downfall of the evil.
It is written, Pro 24:20 For there will be no future
for the evil man; the light of sinners will be put
KNOW THAT THERE IS HOPE AND GOD WILL DEFEND YOU....
It is written, Pro 20:22 Say not thou, I will recompense
evil; but wait on the LORD, and he shall save thee.
It is written, Pro 22:23 For the Lord will give support
to their cause, and take the life of those who take
It is written, 1Sa 24:15 The LORD will judge, and
he will decide which one of us is wrong. May he look
into the matter, defend me, and save me from you."
It is written, Psa 55:22 Leave your troubles with
the LORD, and he will defend you; he never lets honest
people be defeated.
It is written, Psa 91:4 He will cover you with his
wings; you will be safe in his care; his faithfulness
will protect and defend you.
It is written, Psa 135:14 The LORD will defend his
people; he will take pity on his servants.
It is written, Isa 11:4 he will judge the poor fairly
and defend the rights of the helpless. At his command
the people will be punished, and evil persons will
It is written, Isa 54:17 But no weapon will be able
to hurt you; you will have an answer for all who accuse
you. I will defend my servants and give them victory."
The LORD has spoken.
It is written, Isa 60:18 The sounds of violence will
be heard no more; Destruction will not shatter your
country again. I will protect and defend you like
a wall; You will praise me because I have saved you.
It is written, Joe 3:16 The LORD roars from Mount
Zion; his voice thunders from Jerusalem; earth and
sky tremble. But he will defend his people.
It is written, 2Co 6:2 Hear what God says: "When
the time came for me to show you favor, I heard you;
when the day arrived for me to save you, I helped
you." Listen! This is the hour to receive God's
favor; today is the day to be saved!
It is written, Pro 23:18 For without doubt there
is a future, and your hope will not be cut off.
AND HE WILL COME AGAINST YOUR ENEMIES.....
It is written, Mat 22:44 'The Lord said to my Lord:
Sit here at my right side until I put your enemies
under your feet.'
It is written, Luk 20:42 For David himself says in
the book of Psalms, 'The Lord said to my Lord: Sit
here at my right side Luk 20:43 until I put your enemies
as a footstool under your feet.'
It is written, Exo 15:6 "Your right hand, LORD,
is awesome in power; it breaks the enemy in pieces.
It is written, Psa 76:3 There he broke the arrows
of the enemy, their shields and swords, yes, all their
It is written, Exo 23:27 "I will make the people
who oppose you afraid of me; I will bring confusion
among the people against whom you fight, and I will
make all your enemies turn and run from you.
It is written, Lev 26:7 You will be victorious over
It is written, Deu 28:7 "The LORD will defeat
your enemies when they attack you. They will attack
from one direction, but they will run from you in
It is written, Deu 30:7 He will turn all these curses
against your enemies, who hated you and oppressed
It is written, Deu 32:34 "The LORD remembers
what their enemies have done; he waits for the right
time to punish them.
It is written, 1Sa 25:29 If anyone should attack
you and try to kill you, the LORD your God will keep
you safe, as someone guards a precious treasure. As
for your enemies, however, he will throw them away,
as someone hurls stones with a sling.
It is written, 2Sa 22:4 I call to the LORD, and he
saves me from my enemies. Praise the LORD!
It is written, 2Sa 22:40 You give me strength for
the battle and victory over my enemies.
It is written, 2Sa 22:47 The LORD lives! Praise my
defender! Proclaim the greatness of the strong God
who saves me! 2Sa 22:48 He gives me victory over my
enemies; he subdues the nations under me 2Sa 22:49
and saves me from my foes. O LORD, you give me victory
over my enemies and protect me from violent men.
It is written, Psa 6:10 My enemies will know the
bitter shame of defeat; in sudden confusion they will
be driven away.
It is written, Psa 9:3 My enemies turn back when
you appear; they fall down and die.
It is written, Psa 9:6 Our enemies are finished forever;
you have destroyed their cities, and they are completely
It is written, Psa 18:3 I call to the LORD, and he
saves me from my enemies. Praise the LORD!
It is written, Psa 18:17 He rescued me from my powerful
enemies and from all those who hate me--- they were
too strong for me.
It is written, Psa 18:39 You give me strength for
the battle and victory over my enemies.
It is written, Psa 18:40 You make my enemies run
from me; I destroy those who hate me.
It is written, Psa 18:47 He gives me victory over
my enemies; he subdues the nations under me
It is written, Psa 18:48 and saves me from my foes.
O LORD, you give me victory over my enemies and protect
me from violent people.
It is written, Psa 23:5 You prepare a banquet for
me, where all my enemies can see me; you welcome me
as an honored guest and fill my cup to the brim.
It is written, Psa 27:6 So I will triumph over my
enemies around me. With shouts of joy I will offer
sacrifices in his Temple; I will sing, I will praise
It is written, Psa 30:1 I praise you, LORD, because
you have saved me and kept my enemies from gloating
It is written, Psa 31:20 You hide them in the safety
of your presence from the plots of others; in a safe
shelter you hide them from the insults of their enemies.
It is written, Psa 41:2 The LORD will protect them
and preserve their lives; he will make them happy
in the land; he will not abandon them to the power
of their enemies.
It is written, Psa 44:5 and by your power we defeat
It is written, Psa 44:7 but you have saved us from
our enemies and defeated those who hate us.
It is written, Psa 49:5 I am not afraid in times
of danger when I am surrounded by enemies,
It is written, Psa 53:5 But then they will become
terrified, as they have never been before, for God
will scatter the bones of the enemies of his people.
God has rejected them, and so Israel will totally
It is written, Psa 54:5 May God use their own evil
to punish my enemies. He will destroy them because
he is faithful.
It is written, Psa 54:7 You have rescued me from
all my troubles, and I have seen my enemies defeated.
It is written, Psa 55:18 He will bring me safely
back from the battles that I fight against so many
It is written, Psa 56:9 The day I call to you, my
enemies will be turned back. I know this: God is on
It is written, Psa 59:10 My God loves me and will
come to me; he will let me see my enemies defeated.
It is written, Psa 60:12 With God on our side we
will win; he will defeat our enemies.
It is written, Psa 61:3 for you are my protector,
my strong defense against my enemies.
It is written, Psa 68:21 God will surely break the
heads of his enemies, of those who persist in their
It is written, Psa 78:66 He drove his enemies back
in lasting and shameful defeat.
It is written, Psa 81:14 I would quickly defeat their
enemies and conquer all their foes.
It is written, Psa 89:22 His enemies will never succeed
against him; the wicked will not defeat him.
It is written, Psa 92:9 We know that your enemies
will die, and all the wicked will be defeated.
It is written, Psa 92:11 I have seen the defeat of
my enemies and heard the cries of the wicked.
It is written, Psa 107:2 Repeat these words in praise
to the LORD, all you whom he has saved. He has rescued
you from your enemies
It is written, Psa 108:13 With God on our side we
will win; he will defeat our enemies.
It is written, Psa 110:2 From Zion the LORD will
extend your royal power. "Rule over your enemies,"
It is written, Psa 112:8 He is not worried or afraid;
he is certain to see his enemies defeated.
It is written, Psa 118:7 It is the LORD who helps
me, and I will see my enemies defeated.
It is written, Psa 118:10 Many enemies were around
me; but I destroyed them by the power of the LORD!
It is written, Psa 124:6 Let us thank the LORD, who
has not let our enemies destroy us.
It is written, Psa 132:18 I will cover his enemies
with shame, but his kingdom will prosper and flourish."
It is written, Psa 136:24 he freed us from our enemies;
his love is eternal.
It is written, Psa 138:7 When I am surrounded by
troubles, you keep me safe. You oppose my angry enemies
and save me by your power.
It is written, Isa 26:11 Your enemies do not know
that you will punish them. LORD, put them to shame
and let them suffer; let them suffer the punishment
you have prepared. Show them how much you love your
It is written, Isa 33:1 Our enemies are doomed! They
have robbed and betrayed, although no one has robbed
them or betrayed them. But their time to rob and betray
will end, and they themselves will become victims
of robbery and treachery.
It is written, Isa 34:8 This is the time when the
LORD will rescue Zion and take vengeance on her enemies.
It is written, Zec 8:2 "I have longed to help
Jerusalem because of my deep love for her people,
a love which has made me angry with her enemies.
It is written, Isa 63:4 I decided that the time to
save my people had come; it was time to punish their
It is written, Jer 30:16 But now, all who devour
you will be devoured, and all your enemies will be
taken away as prisoners. All who oppress you will
be oppressed, and all who plunder you will be plundered.
It is written, Jer 30:17 I will make you well again;
I will heal your wounds, though your enemies say,
'Zion is an outcast; no one cares about her.' I, the
LORD, have spoken."
It is written, Jer 51:36 And so the LORD said to
the people of Jerusalem, "I will take up your
cause and will make your enemies pay for what they
did to you. I will dry up the source of Babylonia's
water and make its rivers go dry.
It is written, Mic 7:10 Then our enemies will see
this and be disgraced---the same enemies who taunted
us by asking, "Where is the LORD your God?"
We will see them defeated, trampled down like mud
in the streets.
It is written, Nah 2:2 (The LORD is about to restore
the glory of Israel, as it was before her enemies
SO JUST SAY....
It is written, Jer 20:12 But, Almighty LORD, you
test people justly; you know what is in their hearts
and minds. So let me see you take revenge on my enemies,
for I have placed my cause in your hands.
AND HE HAS SENT ME TO TELL YOU....
It is written, Isa 35:4 Tell everyone who is discouraged,
"Be strong and don't be afraid! God is coming
to your rescue, coming to punish your enemies."
It is written, Phi 1:28 Don't be afraid of your enemies;
always be courageous, and this will prove to them
that they will lose and that you will win, because
it is God who gives you the victory.
AND TO JUST BE PATIENT AND WAIT ON THE LORD....
It is written, Isa 62:8 The LORD has made a solemn
promise, And by his power he will carry it out: "Your
grain will no longer be food for your enemies, And
foreigners will no longer drink your wine.
It is written, Heb 10:13 There he now waits until
God puts his enemies as a footstool under his feet.
It is written, 2Co 6:4 Instead, in everything we
do we show that we are God's servants by patiently
enduring troubles, hardships, and difficulties.
2Co 6:5 We have been beaten, jailed, and mobbed; we
have been overworked and have gone without sleep or
food. 2Co 6:6 By our purity, knowledge, patience,
and kindness we have shown ourselves to be God's servants---by
the Holy Spirit, by our true love, 2Co 6:7 by our
message of truth, and by the power of God. We have
righteousness as our weapon, both to attack and to
defend ourselves. 2Co 6:8 We are honored and disgraced;
we are insulted and praised. We are treated as liars,
yet we speak the truth; 2Co 6:9 as unknown, yet we
are known by all; as though we were dead, but, as
you see, we live on. Although punished, we are not
killed; 2Co 6:10 although saddened, we are always
glad; we seem poor, but we make many people rich;
we seem to have nothing, yet we really possess everything.
AND KNOW THAT GOD WILL TURN YOUR SPOUSE AROUND.....
It is written, Pro 21:1 The king's heart is in the
hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth
it whithersoever he will.
It is written, Pro 16:9 A man's heart deviseth his
way: but the LORD directeth his steps.
It is written, Pro 19:21 There are many devices in
a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the LORD,
that shall stand.
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, REMEMBER...It is written, Isa
55:11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of
my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it
shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall
prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.
SO EVERYTHING SPOKEN (IT IS WRITTEN) ABOVE WILL COME
AND NOW AS FOR US, TAKE HEED WHEN IT DOES COME, AND
IT IS COMING.....
It is written, Isa 66:14 When you see this happen,
you will be glad; it will make you strong and healthy.
Then you will know that I, the LORD, help those who
obey me, and I show my anger against my enemies."
It is written, Pro 24:17 Do not be glad at the fall
of your hater, and let not your heart have joy at
his downfall: Pro 24:18 For fear that the Lord may
see it, and it may be evil in his eyes, and his wrath
may be turned away from him.
Brothers and Sisters, I could go on and on with Gods
word, there is so much more that He has spoken to
us to give us His promise of all these things. Jesus
talked back to satan that day with the word of God.
When satan is talking to you, when you find yourself
believing what satan is showing you, it is time to
talk back to him and tell him THAT IT IS WRITTEN.....
I want to talk to you about faith for a moment as
well. Just something that came to me today while driving
to work. I heard Rod Parsley this morning speaking
about as a young pastor he had stated to a visiting
elder pastor that he guess he needed more faith, and
the elder pastor told him that he did not need more
faith, he had enough faith because just believing
in God was faith enough. I pondered this, and found
myself thinking about Mary and Martha on the day Jesus
finally showed up three days late when Lazarus died
and was buried. They were right there in the presence
of Jesus, touching him, speaking directly to him in
person and he speaking back to them. They had witnessed
the miraculous by His hand over and over again, including
the raising of the dead already, and still they could
not even imagine that He would raise Lazarus from
the dead, did not even think to ask it of Him...all
they felt was that it was too late. The scripture
came to me, Eph 3:20 Now unto him that is able to
do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think,
according to the power that worketh in us...
Here is the thing, sometimes there are just things
that we have a hard time feeling or visualizing the
ability to happen, it seems impossible to us, just
like Lazarus walking out of that tomb was not even
imaginable to Mary and Martha, despite how close they
were to Jesus and witnessed with their own eyes the
miraculous things He did. Satan tends to make sure
it looks impossible, as he is a master of deceit,
nothing but a liar. Sometimes we are not capable as
humans to feel the possibility in the heat of the
trial of suffering, and this is why He said what He
did in Ephesians, because He knows our vunerbilites,
He created us. But if we believe in Him, in His word,
and that is the easy part because we all do by blind
faith, then we can rest assured that even in our incapabilities,
He is very capable of anything and everything.
One last thing God imparted to me this week, that
my happiness is not contingent on my husband, it is
contingent on God Himself. Get it into your spirit,
that you are blessed. No matter what happens, you
are blessed, because you are a child of God. It is
written, Eph 1:3 Blessed be the God and Father of
our Lord Jesus Christ, who hath blessed us with all
spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ:
Eph 1:4 According as he hath chosen us in him before
the foundation of the world, that we should be holy
and without blame before him in love: Eph 1:5 Having
predestinated us unto the adoption of children by
Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure
of his will, Eph 1:6 To the praise of the glory of
his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the
Eph 1:7 In whom we have redemption through his blood,
the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of
his grace; Eph 1:8 Wherein he hath abounded toward
us in all wisdom and prudence; Eph 1:9 Having made
known unto us the mystery of his will, according to
his good pleasure which he hath purposed in himself:
Eph 1:10 That in the dispensation of the fulness of
times he might gather together in one all things in
Christ, both which are in heaven, and which are on
earth; even in him:
Eph 1:11 In whom also we have obtained an inheritance,
being predestinated according to the purpose of him
who worketh all things after the counsel of his own
will: Eph 1:12 That we should be to the praise of
his glory, who first trusted in Christ. Eph 1:13 In
whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word
of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also
after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy
Spirit of promise, Eph 1:14 Which is the earnest of
our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased
possession, unto the praise of his glory. Eph 1:15
Wherefore I also, after I heard of your faith in the
Lord Jesus, and love unto all the saints, Eph 1:16
Cease not to give thanks for you, making mention of
you in my prayers; Eph 1:17 That the God of our Lord
Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you
the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge
of him: Eph 1:18 The eyes of your understanding being
enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of
his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his
inheritance in the saints, Eph 1:19 And what is the
exceeding greatness of his power to us-ward who believe,
according to the working of his mighty power,
Eph 1:20 Which he wrought in Christ, when he raised
him from the dead, and set him at his own right hand
in the heavenly places, Eph 1:21 Far above all principality,
and power, and might, and dominion, and every name
that is named, not only in this world, but also in
that which is to come: Eph 1:22 And hath put all things
under his feet, and gave him to be the head over all
things to the church, Eph 1:23 Which is his body,
the fulness of him that filleth all in all.
Our spouses are not our happiness in themselves,
but only vessels that God can work in and through
to bring us happiness in the area of our marriage.
Happiness with our spouses is not contingent on them,
but contingent on God who will create in them a person
whom we can be happy with. We hear all the time that
our spouses are not the enemy, satan is, and that
is true. But lets stop even focusing on who the enemy
is. Lets take our eyes off him and put them on God,
because He is our defender and protector, and this
is His battle. The only reason satan even comes at
us is because he hates God. We belong to God, whom
he cannot touch, so he goes at us instead hoping to
make us angry at God, hoping to make us believe that
God does not care about us, hoping that we will walk
away from God. Just as he has been making so many
of you feel the past couple of weeks. He is trying
to rob God of you...that is his main objective. He
is Gods advesary. But, God dealt with him long ago.
When Jesus uttered "It is finished" and
took His last breath, it was finished, a done deal,
over with, signed..sealed...delivered". We are
Gods, just as Jesus is Gods. We are sons and daughters
of the living God, just as Jesus is. We are blessed,
just as Jesus is. We are what God says we are, we
have what God says we have, and thats just the end
of the story. God says we are one flesh with our spouses,
and no man can separate us because He joined us together
as that one flesh. Say Amen...which amen means "so
be it". God said it, so be it, it's done, and
no one can change that. As long as you believe in
God, stay in His righteousness and stand with God
sheltered under His wing, believing what He says is
truth and nothing short of, so it has to come to pass
as He promises it will, then you have nothing to fear,
nothing to worry about. On the contrary, you have
something to smile and laugh about, something to sing
praises to Him about. This is why praise and worship
is one of your greatest weapons against satan, it
lets satan know...that you know...that he is defeated
and you are victorious in God. In the bible, God sent
armies out to battle with nothing but musical instruments,
right to the enemy front lines, and told them to make
music and song, praises to the Lord; and when they
did, their enemies were instantly defeated. These
were enemies with real weapons and they were defeated
and fell just at the sound of praise and worship to
God. How do you think those soldiers of God felt...knowing
that they were going to be face to face with a man
bearing a dangerous weapon of war and themselves would
only be holding a musical instrument? That as their
advesary would be raising up an ax to lop off their
head, they would be strumming a harp as a defense.
They were human just as we are, and they had fears,
doubts, faith failure. But, the key is that they also
had belief in what God told them to do and the victory
is told them would be theirs. They trusted Him even
when it definitely looked utterly impossible to defeat
a much larger army bearing serious weapons with them
only having instruments to play music on. The weapon
that won those impossible battles was their trust
in God and what He told them. So rise up child of
God, talk back to satan with the word of God that
He has spoke to you, rise up and trust the Lord your
God and be joyous in your heart because God has you
covered and you cannot be defeated. As you stand on
the front line facing the enemy, make music and song
to God, praising Him, and wait patiently in peace
and joy for your enemy to fall, as he is going fall
and be defeated.
I love all of you, God bless you and keep you. Victory
is yours, has been, and the celebration of your victory
is just around the corner. Praise the Lord your God
for it with all your heart, in peace and joy. Laugh
in the Holy Spirit as all is well with your soul,
your life, your marriage. Everything is blessed, God
If you wish to email me, as again, I dont know who
you are; but I know you have been suffering as I spoke
of in the beginning of this email. then feel free
to do so at email@example.com
With love in Christ,